Jacob’s fear of his brother was entirely legitimate. The last time they saw each other, Esau had vowed to kill him for stealing their father’s blessing. Now, returning home after twenty years, Jacob knows a confrontation is unavoidable.
Before he devises a single strategy, his first action is to turn to God. His prayer is a masterwork of raw honesty, demonstrating a faith that is both humble and bold (Genesis 32:9-12). He begins by admitting his unworthiness, stating, “I am not worthy of the least of all the deeds of steadfast love and all the faithfulness that you have shown to your servant.” Then, in the very same breath, he courageously reminds God of His own promise, saying, “But you said, ‘I will surely do you good…’” Finally, he tells God his deepest fear:
Please deliver me from the hand of my brother. From the hand of Esau for, I fear him that he may come and attack me, the mothers with the children.
There is immense power in this kind of vulnerability. Acknowledging our fears to God while clinging to His promise to us is the first step toward finding courage. It clears the mind of panic and prepares the heart for courageous action.
God bless, Shirah Chante, your relationship coach
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