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  • When Overwhelmed by Fear, Start with Sincere Prayer

    When Overwhelmed by Fear, Start with Sincere Prayer

    Jacob’s fear of his brother was entirely legitimate. The last time they saw each other, Esau had vowed to kill him for stealing their father’s blessing. Now, returning home after twenty years, Jacob knows a confrontation is unavoidable. Before he devises a single strategy, his first action is to turn to God. His prayer…

  • Your Relationship Doesn’t Exist in a Vacuum

    Your Relationship Doesn’t Exist in a Vacuum

    It’s tempting to believe that if a couple can achieve perfect internal harmony, they can conquer anything. But even in a hypothetical scenario where two people never argue and exist in complete alignment, their relationship is not an island. It exists within a larger world full of unpredictable challenges. There will always be “circumstances…

  • The Even Keel Is a Myth—And That’s a Good Thing

    The Even Keel Is a Myth—And That’s a Good Thing

    The first and most liberating truth is that even the very best of relationships are going to have ups and downs. This idea runs counter to everything we’ve been taught about romantic success, but embracing it is the key to genuine connection. The expectation of a constant, unwavering “even keel” sets an impossible standard.…

  • Life’s Seesaw: Navigating Ups and Downs

    Life’s Seesaw: Navigating Ups and Downs

      That’s how life is. There’s ups and there’s downs, just like you’re riding a seesaw. But Philippians 4:12 says, in all things, I know how to be abased and I know how to abound. I know how to suffer need, how to be blessed how to be full, and how to be hungry…

  • This May Be the Nudge the Holy Spirit Is Sending You

    This May Be the Nudge the Holy Spirit Is Sending You

    This message is simple: Your relationship matters to God. Yes, even that one.The one that’s complicated.The one that hurts sometimes.The one you’re not sure how to fix… or if you even should. You are not a failure.You are not a lost cause.And your relationship is not beyond healing. “I will restore to you the…

  • This Is Your Appointed Time—Don’t Miss It

    This Is Your Appointed Time—Don’t Miss It

    You’ve been praying.You’ve been waiting.You’ve been trying to hold it together and hoping things would change. This is your moment to take action. And no—it’s not a gimmick.It’s not a trick.It’s a gift. I love giving, and giving Tuesday is my perfect opportunity to give to you.And this year, I wanted to make sure…

  • God’s Power Is Not Just for the Perfect

    God’s Power Is Not Just for the Perfect

    “It is not the healthy who need a doctor, but the sick. I have not come to call the righteous, but sinners to repentance.”Luke 5:31–32 There’s a lie that’s been quietly creeping through the church for far too long: That you have to be perfect to receive God’s help.That unless your relationship looks holy,…

  • When your relationship is struggling, you’re not failing

    When your relationship is struggling, you’re not failing

    “My grace is sufficient for thee, for my strength is made perfect in weakness…”— 2 Corinthians 12:9 Just because you’re a Christian doesn’t mean your relationships will always be smooth.It doesn’t mean you won’t hit rough patches.And it definitely doesn’t mean you’re failing when things fall apart. We forget that relationship struggles—conflict, distance, miscommunication,…

  • Black Friday Blessing: Tea Time Coaching 90% Off Through Sunday

    Black Friday Blessing: Tea Time Coaching 90% Off Through Sunday

    I’m so excited to announce a special Black Friday opportunity for you – and it’s only available through Sunday at 11:59 PM. Tea Time with Shirah Chante is 90% off this weekend. If you’ve been thinking about getting relationship coaching… if you’ve been struggling in your marriage, dating life, parenting, or your walk with…

  • 👉🏻Isaac And Rebecca: Divine Will Vs. Personal Choice

    👉🏻Isaac And Rebecca: Divine Will Vs. Personal Choice

    Introduction: A Father’s Final Task In an episode of her Perfect Body Podcast, relationship coach Shirah Chante analyzes the biblical story of Abraham’s quest to find a wife for his son, Isaac in Genesis chapters 23-25:18, the Torah portion Chayei Sarah. She uses this ancient narrative to illustrate her central thesis: Your mate is…